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Is there any place
where you are not in pain?
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Yes, in the forehead.
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If the message is
that there is nothing, then you are healthy.
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Then you can just embrace life.
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We have received answers to the x-rays,
and all is well.
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He is healthy. But he seems to
to have lost all zest for life.
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It was supposed to be our golden year.
We were supposed to enjoy ourselves as pensioners.
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And now he just sits there.
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He doesn't think
that life is especially fun anymore.
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Dad how are you
that this is your last day here?
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Yes, here I have gone.
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Even on Saturdays and Sundays.
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It's been great -
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- but it feels a little strange now.
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Such. Now I lock the door
to the classroom up for the last time.
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- What a feeling.
- Now you are retiring, Lasse.
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And with you disappears
something of the soul of the high school.
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Lars would like this.
After all, we also have wine, food and travel.
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It feels
as if I have renewed energy.
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Lasse! Lasse! Lasse!
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Have a good time.
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The style is still there.
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Good luck. See you.
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Lars Hammar always says:
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"Life is not a sausage with bread
outside the supermarket."
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"Life can be so much more."
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Well, Lars. So what are you going to do now?
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I will probably travel a lot.
To France, of course.
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Now I hope to get mine,
as they say in French: troisième âge.
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My third age.
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I hope it starts
when I step out the door here.
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Remember who you were.
Do you want to sit and rot -
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- in a fucking armchair in Köping
in your last time?
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The armchair is from Belgium.
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Mom says you are not doing anything.
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She thinks I have nothing
to take me to. It is true.
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I don't know what I'm doing.
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I try to read a little,
but it's not like before.
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- Do you just sit and have negative thoughts?
- Not only.
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But nothing is straightforward.
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Everyone wants you up
of this Belgian armchair.
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You look like a
who sit and wait to die.
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Yes, I have lost my zest for life a little.
I have that.
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- It's hard to witness, father.
- I can understand that.
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It's absolutely crazy,
that it has become so.
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But you're coming back strong, Lars.
We have agreed that.
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For my sake and yours.
There are ten years left in our lives.
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At least ten years.
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Think you have ten years left?
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Ten years? It would probably work,
if I had an epiphany.
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I still love life
and want to live on -
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- also for my children's
and my wife's fault.
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But I can't
know myself longer.
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We left Köping on June 28.
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It was a Friday.
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We drove from Baden-Baden.
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It glides fantastically on the autobahn.
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FRANCE 87
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Monday 15 July.
Happy birthday.
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Dad will be 49 this summer.
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In the evening we ate at Catalan.
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I, Filip, had ratatouille and ham.
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We ate cheese fondue
and had a great time. It cost...
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... 771 inns... francs.
It tasted really good.
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We have been out walking in Beaulieu
and ate pizza on the pedestrian street.
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We have bathed
at La Baie des Fourmis.
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Dad ditched the sunscreen as always,
but it goes away after a few weeks.
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- What are you doing, Linda?
- Eating chips.
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- And what do you drink?
- Coca-Cola.
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When was the last time you stepped?
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That was enough when I said goodbye
to my last high school class.
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- Honestly! Shall I stir life into you?
- No, it just has to be like this.
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Now you have to step again.
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- Is it Anders?
- Yes. Hello.
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- Do you have an orange Renault 4 for sale?
- Yes, I have.
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It's over here.
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You just have to get used to it.
if I start to rant.
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Look right here. This car
is the picture of my entire childhood.
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- It doesn't have air conditioning.
- No, but there is a nice thing here.
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- You can easily transfer on your mobile phone.
- I am happy.
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- Hello.
- I just picked up the car.
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It's like driving in a moving box.
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Right now I'm trying
to push it up to 60 km/h.
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Is it legal?
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We must not drive head-on together
with a truck on the highway.
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- You don't sound very enthusiastic.
- Yeah, yeah.
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I just can't quite see -
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- how I should
help your father on the journey.
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You don't have to help my father, but me.
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Some of my ideas
are you the only one who understands.
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I know it's your hate speech
but this is an organic process.
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- You must say that.
- I can't do it without you.
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It is absolutely incredible.
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Be careful with the back cover.
Damn it!
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- Didn't you hear what I said?
- I don't understand what you're saying.
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- Let's drive.
- Now we have to see if I can get started.
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It's not that easy.
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- Is there...? Yes, there are braces.
- Everything is there!
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When we reached the coast at Nice,
he said, "Wake up, children."
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“Now we are there.
Now the real life begins.”
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And: “In a little while, children. Last turn."
Now I'm starting to rant.
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I get goosebumps.
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We also had one last turn
in Grebbestad, before you saw the sea.
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"The last turn, kids,"
and then the bay opened up before one.
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"It's only the Sugarloaf in Rio de Janeiro
Janeiro that can measure up to this."
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I am completely moved.
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In all our lives, France has
symbolized joy for my father -
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- so now I'm taking him on a trip
like them when I was a child.
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To shake him up.
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My theory is that when he experiences
places and situations from that time -
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- then I think it can
get him back as a human.
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People might say you shouldn't
recreate the past. But why not?
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Maybe because you take risks
to be disappointed.
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But if it succeeds,
you get so much back.
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It trumps the pain
about to be disappointed.
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You're coming too because you love me.
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What kind of reaction is that?
I'm glad you're coming along.
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If he does not travel,
or if I don't wake him -
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- then we don't have him much longer.
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- Hello.
- Well, hello, Filip.
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where is father
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Hello with you.
We are going to France today.
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- I wonder how it's going?
- What?
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Now we go to France,
and then you relive the good times.
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- Then I have to wear clothes.
- You're not nervous, are you?
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- Yes, absolutely crazy.
- What are you nervous about?
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I'm going here
with my cramps and all that -
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- and I feel a little weak.
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It does not help the back or the vision,
but on your soul.
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Go with mom.
I don't want to interfere with the packing.
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- But be a little happy.
- I can't do that on command.
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- I was also a little shaken.
- Stop. Now just go and pack.
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I need a glass of water.
Otherwise I pass out.
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- What shorts do you want to bring?
- I don't remember them.
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Then we'll take them here.
And the toiletry bag.
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I don't know...
Is there room for the thick book here?
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- It is about de Gaulle and...
- Now get some clothes on, Lars.
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I can't do everything at once.
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- Like that. Please drag.
- Do you care to lift it up over the carpet?
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Lars has a small backpack with him
with handkerchiefs and a small encyclopedia.
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- It's like in the past.
- A pocket encyclopedia?
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He will always have that with him.
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Fredrik is good to have with you for ...
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You need help to carry me
in and out of the institutions.
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He can give you some joy in life.
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- You are depressed.
- Well, I'm not depressed.
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- What do you want to call it?
- I'm a little down.
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After all, that's what depression is.
Now we do it here.
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- We'll probably see each other again soon.
- You never know.
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You do, Lars!
It should be fun.
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- Be careful I don't fall.
- I'm holding you, Lars.
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You know that.
You're going to do well.
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- Isn't it beautiful?
- It is superb.
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Here you have to sit, father.
Can you come in? Perfect.
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It is a faithful copy of the one we had.
Renault 4.
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- There is not much space.
- Fredrik sits behind.
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- Hasn't he come in?
- Yeah. I'm sitting here, Lars.
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- That is disturbing.
- Let's get going.
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- What an adventure, Lars. Not?
- Yeah. The last journey.
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- It doesn't have to be.
- We'll see, Lars.
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The last journey
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- On the way to Paradise. Does it exist?
- Paradise?
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- Does it exist?
- I hope so.
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- You deserve it the most out of the three of us.
- I doubt that.
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One sin has been bad.
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- What sin have you committed?
- I scolded a taxi driver.
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It was when I was studying in Lund.
I graduated in '68.
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- Your biggest sin is 60 years ago?
- It still bothers me.
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He didn't want any more,
and then it clicked for me.
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Don't you want anything else?
We drive all the way to Malmö.
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He needs more pee breaks.
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- Can you pee in a bottle?
- No thanks.
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Let's drive.
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- We are here.
- Well, there you are.
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Lunch in Albace. Albace.
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46 francs. Voila!
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slow down
when you approach the toll booth.
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There is a lot of speed control.
Remember that!
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Now I remember a lot.
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I got the idea
when I saw the doctor's recorder.
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- Was that why?
- I guess that's where I got the idea.
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On the square in Beaulieu
you saw all kinds of people who were affected.
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There was an Arab,
who did stretching exercises.
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An Arab who did stretching exercises?
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Hey, Dad.
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What happened last night?
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I had to go to the bathroom
and then i fell -
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- and I was lying on the floor
from three to eight o'clock.
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My leg is done.
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- Well, is it broken? No, right?
- I don't know.
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But here you have beaten yourself.
It is clear. How are you?
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I actually feel a little insecure,
because...
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- Is the alternative to go home?
- Yes, that's enough.
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We must consult a doctor.
I just think... I know you.
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You will be staying at home with
anxiety because it didn't come to anything.
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- I'm not very used to it.
- Well, you are. Now stop.
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Have you had brain surgery?
or the heart? Do you have a pacemaker?
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- No.
- No other implants in the body?
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No, I guess I haven't.
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If it is not broken,
then we have to talk about what we do.
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You don't just want to go home, do you?
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I feel sorry for him
but I'm also frustrated.
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He is so insecure about everything. He is so...
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Yes, I know.
And he has no fighting will.
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I don't know anyone
with so little fighting will.
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If he hasn't broken his leg,
then he must go.
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He must experience something.
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We can see a small crack.
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It sits a little further out
on the bone here.
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- I felt the bang.
- Exactly.
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When it can only be seen on X-ray,
you don't usually operate.
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The plan was
to leave already this afternoon.
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As I interpret it,
then you don't recommend it. Or what?
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No. We recommend that we keep you
here at the department over the weekend -
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- so we can see about the physiotherapists
can get you going.
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If it requires rehabilitation,
can you promise us to be positive and itch.
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Yes, for sure. For sure.
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One, two, one, two. This is a sample.
Travel diary.
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The trip to France. And now I sit here
in a hospital bed in Malmö -
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- where we get excellent service
and help.
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I have some pain and am unsure,
how it should go.
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Tiina is on her way to support me -
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- and the boys drive the car
down to the French border -
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- where they want me to join
to them when I feel better.
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Filip would like so much,
that the journey becomes something.
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Your mother is coming.
He suffers no hardship.
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- Can you drink beer?
- In Germany?
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That is, when you have left your father behind.
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- I think you have to.
- He will come down there later.
232
00:21:36,483 --> 00:21:40,763
Because of the visiting hours
I couldn't stay all night either.
233
00:21:40,883 --> 00:21:45,883
- Everything we do now is reasonable.
- Shouldn't I sleep with him?
234
00:21:46,003 --> 00:21:48,123
Yes, maybe.
235
00:21:52,043 --> 00:21:54,963
It feels a little
like it's a getaway car.
236
00:21:55,083 --> 00:21:59,043
Yes, we're running away.
That's really low.
237
00:22:25,403 --> 00:22:27,883
Europe's most overhauled car.
238
00:22:34,123 --> 00:22:37,723
We will find a good place to meet
at the French border.
239
00:22:37,843 --> 00:22:40,403
do you know
that maybe you should bathe him?
240
00:22:40,523 --> 00:22:44,603
- No.
- Yes, if he needs help...
241
00:22:44,723 --> 00:22:47,163
Do you know who is going to bathe him?
242
00:22:47,283 --> 00:22:51,363
No, no, no.
It is out of the question at all.
243
00:22:51,483 --> 00:22:54,923
I'm not mentally ready
to bathe him.
244
00:22:55,043 --> 00:22:57,563
It doesn't matter to you.
245
00:22:57,683 --> 00:23:01,883
He's just an old, naked man,
which you soap in.
246
00:23:02,003 --> 00:23:04,043
I have never bathed anyone.
247
00:23:04,163 --> 00:23:06,243
Life has to go on...
248
00:23:06,363 --> 00:23:10,163
When you are small,
being bathed by your parents.
249
00:23:10,283 --> 00:23:13,363
As you get older,
you bathe your parents.
250
00:23:13,483 --> 00:23:18,683
Life is also about
that you help your friends with...
251
00:23:18,803 --> 00:23:21,003
With soaping up his friend's father?
252
00:23:21,123 --> 00:23:24,483
- No.
- We can do it together.
253
00:23:24,603 --> 00:23:29,243
- Why should I?
- Because I need support!
254
00:23:35,643 --> 00:23:39,643
I tried to call my dad,
and then the nurse wrote:
255
00:23:39,763 --> 00:23:42,363
"I was there when you called."
256
00:23:42,483 --> 00:23:46,443
"I said, 'It's probably your son,
who wants to talk to you.'"
257
00:23:46,563 --> 00:23:51,043
"Lars was very tired and said:
'Say I'm sleeping.'"
258
00:23:52,203 --> 00:23:58,083
Maybe it's too overwhelming.
He thinks you're pushing him.
259
00:23:58,203 --> 00:24:02,363
That is 0.0% the case. 0.0.
260
00:24:02,483 --> 00:24:05,123
- To be honest...
- Now it's coming.
261
00:24:05,243 --> 00:24:09,003
I think what you're good at -
262
00:24:09,123 --> 00:24:14,083
- is to displace that which does not
is convenient or comfortable for you -
263
00:24:14,203 --> 00:24:16,923
- so it is no longer true.
264
00:24:17,043 --> 00:24:20,043
Of course you don't want to...
"Say I'm sleeping."
265
00:24:25,723 --> 00:24:29,843
Hello. It's Tiina Hammar.
I am going to visit my husband, Lars Hammar.
266
00:24:36,003 --> 00:24:39,923
- It has been a tough game.
- Yes, I know that.
267
00:24:40,043 --> 00:24:43,003
- Can't you walk at all?
- I didn't have to.
268
00:24:43,123 --> 00:24:46,843
They say you have to get up and go.
Have you heard from Philip?
269
00:24:46,963 --> 00:24:48,803
Yes, plenty.
270
00:24:51,363 --> 00:24:55,323
Should he go?
He says he must not go.
271
00:24:55,443 --> 00:24:59,083
- Yes, he can.
- You should go, Lars.
272
00:25:07,963 --> 00:25:11,163
It is sad.
When I call, he always says:
273
00:25:11,283 --> 00:25:16,083
"Kurt Wuolikainen: Parkinson's.
Gun Ädelroth: MS."
274
00:25:16,203 --> 00:25:20,803
He goes through them one by one.
He sits and writes a list.
275
00:25:20,923 --> 00:25:24,643
- Diseases Hall of Fame.
- Fredrik Wikingsson: AIDS.
276
00:25:24,763 --> 00:25:27,883
- Well then... Okay.
- There are good medicines.
277
00:25:28,003 --> 00:25:31,123
Filip Hammar: arthritis.
278
00:25:31,243 --> 00:25:35,123
- You mean gout?
- Yes, gout.
279
00:25:35,243 --> 00:25:38,883
- Fredrik Wikingsson: brain dead.
- No ... Damn it.
280
00:25:39,003 --> 00:25:43,403
- Filip Hammar: hunchback.
- Nobody has that.
281
00:25:43,523 --> 00:25:47,083
Filip Hammar: fluid in the lungs.
282
00:25:53,603 --> 00:25:58,963
Should I tell the hotel story?
He had peed in his pants.
283
00:25:59,083 --> 00:26:02,643
I take off his underpants
and pick up some new ones.
284
00:26:02,763 --> 00:26:08,683
I put them on him and almost feel
that it is a secret.
285
00:26:08,803 --> 00:26:12,883
It's almost
like doing something illegal.
286
00:26:15,723 --> 00:26:20,363
There are probably a thousand pages
about de Gaulle's life.
287
00:26:22,043 --> 00:26:26,403
It's going to take a few years.
Maybe I'll die before then.
288
00:26:29,523 --> 00:26:34,643
I have met him over several years,
and the fragility increases rapidly.
289
00:26:34,763 --> 00:26:38,563
- You must be able to see that too.
- He needs to pull himself together.
290
00:26:38,683 --> 00:26:43,323
That's how you want it,
but maybe that's not the case anymore.
291
00:26:43,443 --> 00:26:45,523
Yes, it is.
292
00:26:46,603 --> 00:26:50,403
- Do you want to get up and go for a walk?
- Well, I can't go.
293
00:26:50,523 --> 00:26:53,243
You can walk a little.
294
00:26:53,363 --> 00:26:58,323
Do you know why he does this for you?
It's because he loves you.
295
00:26:58,443 --> 00:27:02,243
- He wants you to feel good.
- It's burdensome.
296
00:27:12,803 --> 00:27:16,363
BRUSSELS
297
00:27:25,603 --> 00:27:31,083
Do you know who is from Brussels
and means a lot to my father and me?
298
00:27:31,203 --> 00:27:34,483
- No.
- Now drive. what are you doing
299
00:27:34,603 --> 00:27:37,123
Well the side mirror...
300
00:27:39,683 --> 00:27:43,883
- Who is from Brussels?
- Jacques Brel. It is my father's household god.
301
00:27:44,003 --> 00:27:49,483
My father could walk into the living room,
close the door and come out in tears.
302
00:27:49,603 --> 00:27:55,323
It was as if he was refueling
with passion and love.
303
00:27:56,923 --> 00:28:02,163
My father always said, “Here filed Brel
his divorce papers."
304
00:28:02,283 --> 00:28:05,323
- Was he divorced many times?
- Maybe not at all.
305
00:28:05,443 --> 00:28:09,283
But your father thinks so.
Turn around. We'll send it to your father.
306
00:28:09,403 --> 00:28:13,003
- Is it Brel?
- The mouth is not so successful.
307
00:28:13,123 --> 00:28:16,363
No, it's quite a mouthful.
308
00:28:16,483 --> 00:28:20,963
- It looks a bit macabre.
- Yes. It's not good.
309
00:28:22,723 --> 00:28:26,723
- It turned out well. What should I write?
- "See you soon."
310
00:28:26,843 --> 00:28:31,083
You have been here often with your father.
What did he used to say?
311
00:28:31,203 --> 00:28:35,683
- I must never get emotional.
- What did he say when you were standing here?
312
00:28:35,803 --> 00:28:39,363
"Sorrow and joy.
Brel never changed."
313
00:28:39,483 --> 00:28:42,523
I just see that the statue is from 2017.
314
00:28:46,363 --> 00:28:49,043
What a childhood memory.
315
00:28:50,723 --> 00:28:56,683
- Hello to you.
- Hello. Thanks for the beautiful pictures.
316
00:28:56,803 --> 00:29:00,283
- Today is Father's Day.
- That's sweet of you.
317
00:29:00,403 --> 00:29:05,523
- For Father's Day I sent you...
- Underberg.
318
00:29:05,643 --> 00:29:08,883
- You're crazy about it.
- Yes, yes. Für den Magen.
319
00:29:09,003 --> 00:29:12,723
- Für den Magen.
- Cheers.
320
00:29:14,883 --> 00:29:17,003
How are you?
321
00:29:17,123 --> 00:29:21,243
Think I had to sit like this
as an 80-year-old.
322
00:29:21,363 --> 00:29:23,443
Do you suffer from age anxiety?
323
00:29:23,563 --> 00:29:27,603
No. We can talk about that
when we get home.
324
00:29:27,723 --> 00:29:32,603
- No, Lars. When we are in France.
- It feels very distant.
325
00:29:32,723 --> 00:29:36,003
Stop now. Now I'm getting sad.
Can you hear me?
326
00:29:36,123 --> 00:29:41,043
- I'm in a wheelchair.
- But it's mostly in your head.
327
00:29:41,163 --> 00:29:44,163
No, but it...
It feels impossible, Filip.
328
00:29:44,283 --> 00:29:48,963
He sounded much fresher,
but it was bad news.
329
00:29:49,083 --> 00:29:54,363
Yes. it's nice
that he is more healthy, but you have to realize ...
330
00:29:54,483 --> 00:29:57,163
Drink some more beer.
You've got four.
331
00:29:57,283 --> 00:30:01,283
You must be able to realize for yourself,
that when he says…
332
00:30:03,923 --> 00:30:08,763
- Hey, mom. Are you in the hospital?
- I am all the time at the moment.
333
00:30:08,883 --> 00:30:13,843
Take dad down to the yard.
I have a surprise.
334
00:30:18,243 --> 00:30:21,723
- Hello to you.
- Hello, hello.
335
00:30:21,843 --> 00:30:28,083
Lars, it has been almost 35 years since
that we met in Köping.
336
00:30:29,123 --> 00:30:35,283
Filip has told me that it did
a big impression on both you and Filip.
337
00:30:35,403 --> 00:30:40,403
So now we have been invited to
to sing you some Brel songs.
338
00:30:44,403 --> 00:30:48,603
Well we've had our storms.
339
00:30:48,723 --> 00:30:53,203
Lifelong love is for fools.
340
00:30:53,323 --> 00:30:57,923
At least a thousand times
have I turned my back on you
341
00:30:58,043 --> 00:31:01,123
and you have packed your robes.
342
00:31:02,883 --> 00:31:07,683
In this living room for two
all old lightning strikes are found.
343
00:31:07,803 --> 00:31:12,683
Even our furniture reminds them.
344
00:31:12,803 --> 00:31:17,483
We have had longer to cry,
you are tired of defeat
345
00:31:17,603 --> 00:31:22,643
and I'm tired of always winning.
346
00:31:24,123 --> 00:31:28,163
My beloved
347
00:31:29,283 --> 00:31:34,403
my tender
beautiful beloved ...
348
00:31:35,963 --> 00:31:39,963
Congratulations. Dad will be 49 this summer.
349
00:31:48,163 --> 00:31:50,563
- What are you doing?
- Eating chips.
350
00:31:50,683 --> 00:31:53,323
And what do you drink?
351
00:31:53,443 --> 00:31:55,003
Coca-Cola.
352
00:32:07,763 --> 00:32:12,643
Filip does this for you,
because he loves you.
353
00:32:28,443 --> 00:32:33,523
Tuesday. The pain is constant,
but I do what I can.
354
00:32:39,603 --> 00:32:42,323
Today I managed ten meters.
355
00:32:49,203 --> 00:32:52,003
Look there, Lars.
It makes me really happy.
356
00:32:52,123 --> 00:32:56,043
- Thursday: 20 metres.
- You fight.
357
00:32:56,163 --> 00:32:58,123
BRUSSELS
358
00:32:58,243 --> 00:33:00,163
FRANCE
359
00:33:00,283 --> 00:33:04,923
That's probably the furthest you've gone.
360
00:33:05,043 --> 00:33:09,723
So, oh well. Now we're driving.
361
00:33:09,843 --> 00:33:16,363
Good morning and welcome aboard
on this flight to Luxembourg.
362
00:33:31,203 --> 00:33:35,323
There is a shake of the head.
So drive by!
363
00:33:35,443 --> 00:33:39,843
- Crazy ... He did something like this.
- No, then.
364
00:33:41,323 --> 00:33:43,203
There they come.
365
00:33:43,323 --> 00:33:45,723
- Is that them?
- I think so.
366
00:33:49,603 --> 00:33:52,963
- Good day, monsieur.
- Good day, friends.
367
00:33:53,083 --> 00:33:57,523
See how close we are to France.
A few meters. Hello, for the rest.
368
00:33:59,403 --> 00:34:04,363
Otherwise I wouldn't hug,
before we were in France. You look good.
369
00:34:04,483 --> 00:34:07,763
There's Fredrik. Hands up.
370
00:34:09,123 --> 00:34:13,483
- Hey, Lars.
- Can you see what it says?
371
00:34:13,603 --> 00:34:18,243
Stop it. It's been a long time,
I've been so close.
372
00:34:18,363 --> 00:34:20,523
The heart begins to pound.
373
00:34:20,643 --> 00:34:23,723
Hi, Lars.
Nice to see you.
374
00:34:23,843 --> 00:34:27,763
- What kind of greeting was that?
- He has been hospitalized.
375
00:34:27,883 --> 00:34:33,723
It was a wild biscuit.
It's the coldest thing I've seen.
376
00:34:33,843 --> 00:34:36,803
- Is it good, Lars?
- Really good.
377
00:34:36,923 --> 00:34:40,083
It is almost a religious experience.
378
00:34:40,203 --> 00:34:43,603
- Are you there, Lars?
- Hold on to the steering wheel.
379
00:34:43,723 --> 00:34:47,603
- But I can't see anything.
- Turn to the right.
380
00:34:51,643 --> 00:34:54,203
More to the right.
381
00:34:59,003 --> 00:35:00,763
Vive la France.
382
00:35:00,883 --> 00:35:04,243
To the left, father.
He is almost blind.
383
00:35:10,683 --> 00:35:15,323
Voila! Now we are in France, father.
Then we drive.
384
00:35:15,443 --> 00:35:19,083
- It can be slippery here.
- Well, you can't.
385
00:36:00,363 --> 00:36:03,763
Now the plug is smoking.
Let's have some calvados.
386
00:36:03,883 --> 00:36:09,723
- Say: "Shut up, life is beautiful."
- Shut up, life is beautiful.
387
00:36:11,323 --> 00:36:14,043
How does it feel?
388
00:36:15,123 --> 00:36:17,923
It's damn strong.
389
00:36:24,803 --> 00:36:29,803
Now that we're in France, we can't
drive straight to a church?
390
00:36:29,923 --> 00:36:34,843
Yes, definitely. But sometimes
I don't think God deserves you.
391
00:36:35,963 --> 00:36:39,483
What has he done
special for you?
392
00:36:39,603 --> 00:36:44,523
- He created you.
- Maybe that's what I wanted to hear.
393
00:37:07,883 --> 00:37:14,203
- I'm trying to get started again.
- Yes.
394
00:37:14,323 --> 00:37:18,723
Everything has changed.
I have become passive.
395
00:37:18,843 --> 00:37:22,043
Before, I was purposeful.
396
00:37:24,723 --> 00:37:28,723
- I have lost...
- You will regain your strength.
397
00:37:28,843 --> 00:37:31,363
And your inner, spiritual strength.
398
00:37:31,483 --> 00:37:37,243
- You want to awaken your inner self.
- Yes.
399
00:37:37,363 --> 00:37:42,843
It is important.
You have embarked on a beautiful journey.
400
00:37:44,563 --> 00:37:47,483
Ease your heart.
Confess your sins.
401
00:37:55,003 --> 00:37:59,843
It is a very old case.
402
00:37:59,963 --> 00:38:04,523
- It may well be, it's a bit stupid.
- It doesn't matter.
403
00:38:06,123 --> 00:38:11,923
I behaved very badly
to a taxi driver.
404
00:38:12,043 --> 00:38:15,083
It bothers me to this day.
405
00:38:19,083 --> 00:38:22,723
In the Father's, in the Son's
and in the name of the Holy Spirit -
406
00:38:22,843 --> 00:38:26,403
- I forgive you your sins. Amen.
407
00:38:26,523 --> 00:38:31,083
We make the sign of the cross. In the Father's,
in the name of the Son and in the name of the Holy Spirit.
408
00:38:31,203 --> 00:38:32,883
- Amen.
- Amen.
409
00:38:33,883 --> 00:38:40,083
It feels good. Maybe coming
I back before I die.
410
00:38:40,203 --> 00:38:46,203
- Do you feel that the time is near?
- Yes, to a great extent.
411
00:38:49,123 --> 00:38:53,843
I cursed when I
treated the taxi driver badly.
412
00:38:53,963 --> 00:38:55,923
Yes. Profanity.
413
00:38:56,043 --> 00:38:59,483
I don't understand
that I could do that to him.
414
00:38:59,603 --> 00:39:03,523
- He is a very good man.
- Yes, definitely.
415
00:39:03,643 --> 00:39:05,843
Many thanks.
416
00:39:10,203 --> 00:39:13,723
"Amortisseur": Silencer.
417
00:39:13,843 --> 00:39:17,763
"Le turbot": turbot.
418
00:39:17,883 --> 00:39:22,203
For dinner Linda had
spaghetti à la ratatouille.
419
00:39:22,323 --> 00:39:26,123
That's what I'll never forget.
What should I do?
420
00:39:26,243 --> 00:39:29,443
- It was unnecessary.
- Such a dung beast.
421
00:39:29,563 --> 00:39:32,643
- We must change our view of France.
- He is Polish.
422
00:39:33,883 --> 00:39:37,083
He is wildly relieved,
that it was a Pole.
423
00:39:59,603 --> 00:40:02,163
Why was it France?
424
00:40:02,283 --> 00:40:05,603
I have no other explanation -
425
00:40:05,723 --> 00:40:11,323
- than my mother putting on a beret
on my head when I was a child.
426
00:40:11,443 --> 00:40:14,803
That beret controlled my thoughts.
427
00:40:21,363 --> 00:40:23,723
Shall I help you a little?
428
00:40:23,843 --> 00:40:26,683
I'm just doing that.
429
00:40:26,803 --> 00:40:29,123
You don't have to...
430
00:40:32,643 --> 00:40:35,923
Now you have nothing on your fork, father.
It is empty.
431
00:40:36,043 --> 00:40:40,403
- My view is...
- Now we do it like this. See here.
432
00:40:40,523 --> 00:40:46,523
You can put it directly on it.
Now you have foie gras on.
433
00:40:49,363 --> 00:40:51,523
- Yes.
- Well?
434
00:40:53,883 --> 00:40:55,963
It is incomparable.
435
00:40:58,603 --> 00:41:03,043
But I've been thinking a lot about France.
Was it mostly the mentality?
436
00:41:03,163 --> 00:41:08,203
It was fun to meet a people,
that does not stop at a stop sign.
437
00:41:08,323 --> 00:41:12,523
Every Frenchman
is his own little president.
438
00:41:15,203 --> 00:41:19,603
You can't see anything.
Keep it like this.
439
00:41:19,723 --> 00:41:24,243
Well... What's going on?
It's like you've gone back to childhood.
440
00:41:32,323 --> 00:41:34,603
- Cheers, Dad.
- Cheers.
441
00:41:40,403 --> 00:41:43,403
- Exquis.
- What does that mean?
442
00:41:43,523 --> 00:41:45,443
Exquisite.
443
00:41:45,563 --> 00:41:50,283
It sounds a bit childish,
but what is your absolute life right?
444
00:41:50,403 --> 00:41:53,163
My own ratatouille.
445
00:41:53,283 --> 00:41:56,883
- I am the European champion in that.
- Yes.
446
00:41:57,003 --> 00:42:01,683
It is actually good. I will stay
completely cocky when we sit here.
447
00:42:03,003 --> 00:42:06,283
What is the secret?
You just fry everything.
448
00:42:06,403 --> 00:42:11,843
You must not leave the kitchen too early,
but shall continue for an eternity.
449
00:42:11,963 --> 00:42:16,163
If the glass here is crooked,
or am I seeing crookedly?
450
00:42:16,283 --> 00:42:20,283
You think way too much.
Just take your glass and drink.
451
00:42:23,443 --> 00:42:27,323
Up, up, up, up, up.
452
00:42:29,363 --> 00:42:33,243
Now it comes, now it comes.
Yes, damn it.
453
00:42:33,363 --> 00:42:36,043
- Did you get anything?
- No.
454
00:42:36,163 --> 00:42:38,723
- We'll try again.
- No, wait, wait.
455
00:42:38,843 --> 00:42:43,163
- I'm having a bit of a hard time...
- All right.
456
00:42:43,283 --> 00:42:46,843
- Would you have chosen the teaching profession today?
- Yes.
457
00:42:46,963 --> 00:42:49,683
- Yes.
- That answer came quickly.
458
00:42:49,803 --> 00:42:52,643
- If you were 20 now...
- I wanted to be a teacher.
459
00:42:52,763 --> 00:42:59,283
It is a great opportunity to be a teacher,
if you don't look at the salary.
460
00:42:59,403 --> 00:43:05,203
It's a fantastic opportunity for
to be good to young people.
461
00:43:05,323 --> 00:43:08,003
Do you feel that you succeeded?
462
00:43:10,203 --> 00:43:13,003
One can only hope for that.
463
00:43:15,923 --> 00:43:22,883
You often felt almost better with it
your students than with your colleagues.
464
00:43:23,003 --> 00:43:26,763
I advertised for French,
because I said "bonjour" to everyone.
465
00:43:26,883 --> 00:43:33,443
I still meet former students,
who has never had French -
466
00:43:33,563 --> 00:43:36,203
- but they say "bonjour, monsieur".
467
00:43:36,323 --> 00:43:39,923
I met a former student inside the city.
468
00:43:40,043 --> 00:43:46,043
He was totally into the rats. He said:
"Hello, Hammar. Aren't you in France?"
469
00:43:46,163 --> 00:43:49,803
There was a rumor that
that I was always in France.
470
00:43:49,923 --> 00:43:53,083
I said:
"No, Torbjörn. It doesn't fit."
471
00:43:53,203 --> 00:43:59,323
Then he sat back on the bench,
and I went into Systembolaget.
472
00:44:00,563 --> 00:44:05,883
Then he came running and said: "Hammer,
damn you could remember my name."
473
00:44:06,003 --> 00:44:10,443
That's enough
my greatest experience as a teacher.
474
00:44:10,563 --> 00:44:12,923
When a man who had gone to the dogs -
475
00:44:13,043 --> 00:44:16,723
- rejoiced,
that I remembered his name.
476
00:44:16,843 --> 00:44:20,803
I almost felt
it was my greatest achievement as a teacher.
477
00:44:20,923 --> 00:44:24,283
It got big there, I must say.
478
00:44:28,243 --> 00:44:30,483
- Cheers, Dad.
- Cheers, Philip.
479
00:44:41,883 --> 00:44:46,843
Are you moving a little that way?
Good, Dad. And then you lie down.
480
00:44:48,843 --> 00:44:53,243
Damn it.
Once it was you who cuddled me.
481
00:44:53,363 --> 00:44:57,443
- Do you remember that?
- Yes, of course I can.
482
00:44:58,723 --> 00:45:04,643
I'm completely done.
Thank you for a fantastic day and evening.
483
00:45:04,763 --> 00:45:08,203
- Good night.
- Good night. Sleep well.
484
00:45:13,283 --> 00:45:18,963
Love always has a price,
whether it is a child or a woman.
485
00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:21,443
When death comes.
486
00:45:21,563 --> 00:45:25,923
Maybe you pay the price,
that loving is hard.
487
00:45:26,043 --> 00:45:28,563
Yes, it is.
488
00:45:29,683 --> 00:45:32,403
First morning on French soil.
489
00:45:32,523 --> 00:45:39,323
The breakfast was the best here.
Fantastic and with good ingredients.
490
00:45:39,443 --> 00:45:43,043
Let's see.
Where is the best place to stay? There?
491
00:45:43,163 --> 00:45:46,323
There have been many bumps
on the way here.
492
00:45:46,443 --> 00:45:50,443
But I'm super happy
to be back in my second homeland.
493
00:45:50,563 --> 00:45:54,363
Now there is not far to the end goal.
494
00:45:54,483 --> 00:45:58,003
Beaulieu-sur-Mer down by the Mediterranean.
495
00:46:08,083 --> 00:46:11,963
Every day at the beach you had to
to the orange marking.
496
00:46:12,083 --> 00:46:16,763
There you peed.
“Filip, swim away just a little bit,” you said.
497
00:46:16,883 --> 00:46:21,323
And then you lay there and floated.
I loved it.
498
00:46:21,443 --> 00:46:24,403
I remember you feeling so good.
499
00:46:24,523 --> 00:46:28,723
It was the world's most beautiful place to pee
with a view of the Alps.
500
00:46:28,843 --> 00:46:31,883
Yes, that's why I swam backstroke.
501
00:46:32,003 --> 00:46:35,963
What's so great about peeing in the sea?
502
00:46:36,083 --> 00:46:38,843
The freedom.
503
00:46:38,963 --> 00:46:41,923
One, two, three.
504
00:46:45,523 --> 00:46:48,363
- Like that.
- Abuse.
505
00:46:49,603 --> 00:46:52,203
A son who gets his father out of bed.
506
00:46:53,283 --> 00:46:58,043
My hearing is so indescribably bad.
Old age is...
507
00:46:58,163 --> 00:47:02,843
Fuck your age and think about,
what it's like to see France again.
508
00:47:02,963 --> 00:47:05,563
Look, dad. Life ain't shit.
509
00:47:05,683 --> 00:47:10,003
No, but I guess I'm just a pessimist.
510
00:47:13,963 --> 00:47:16,883
I remember,
that we ordered a large beer -
511
00:47:17,003 --> 00:47:20,603
- and then a parrot flew up onto the counter.
512
00:47:20,723 --> 00:47:25,923
Suddenly the parrot stung
whole head down in the beer.
513
00:47:28,683 --> 00:47:31,723
When you drive past cities, you think:
514
00:47:31,843 --> 00:47:36,283
"Béziers! That was where the parrot
stuck his head in the beer."
515
00:47:36,403 --> 00:47:40,723
- And then you feel good.
- You're right. It's fantastic.
516
00:47:40,843 --> 00:47:45,243
- Did you see the parrot more than once?
- We spent the night there.
517
00:47:45,363 --> 00:47:48,523
It was sitting on the counter looking sour.
518
00:47:51,283 --> 00:47:53,763
He laughs all the time.
519
00:48:00,883 --> 00:48:03,443
Here we sat in the car every summer.
520
00:48:03,563 --> 00:48:07,403
“Children, we will be there soon.
Only two more turns."
521
00:48:07,523 --> 00:48:12,043
We looked forward to that every year.
It was fucking awesome.
522
00:48:12,163 --> 00:48:15,843
Here it comes, father.
"Last turn, kids."
523
00:48:29,763 --> 00:48:33,723
I don't know when we arrived.
524
00:48:33,843 --> 00:48:36,123
Half past seven, says Tiina.
525
00:48:36,243 --> 00:48:41,403
In the evening we went for a walk
to Saint-Jean and sat down at a bar.
526
00:48:41,523 --> 00:48:46,523
Mom and Widéns got four calvados.
It was quite expensive. 38 kroner each.
527
00:48:49,883 --> 00:48:51,963
Tina Turner lived up there.
528
00:48:52,083 --> 00:48:55,163
- Did you meet her?
- No, it was Krister.
529
00:48:55,283 --> 00:48:59,843
“My cousin met her
in a phone booth,” you said.
530
00:49:05,283 --> 00:49:08,443
I'll come over and help you out.
531
00:49:09,643 --> 00:49:13,083
- It's been a long time since you've been here.
- Very long.
532
00:49:13,203 --> 00:49:17,043
- It's exactly the same color.
- Nothing has changed.
533
00:49:17,163 --> 00:49:20,283
Maybe it's the same grumpy neighbors.
534
00:49:20,403 --> 00:49:25,363
Do you remember this smell?
Like when the French make lunch.
535
00:49:25,483 --> 00:49:29,163
And the last one. Such.
536
00:49:29,283 --> 00:49:31,683
It's going just fine.
537
00:49:31,803 --> 00:49:34,483
We are treading on sacred ground here.
538
00:49:34,603 --> 00:49:38,323
Yes, this is the one we rented.
It's fantastic.
539
00:49:38,443 --> 00:49:42,363
You know what?
We will also live here now.
540
00:49:42,483 --> 00:49:47,323
Now you step over the threshold
to the apartment 20 years later.
541
00:49:47,443 --> 00:49:52,283
It can't do that.
What a feeling.
542
00:49:52,403 --> 00:49:57,203
- Everything looks like itself.
- What were you doing on the stove there?
543
00:49:57,323 --> 00:50:01,803
- Ratatouille.
- We have to do that again, father.
544
00:50:01,923 --> 00:50:05,043
Try to turn around.
545
00:50:05,163 --> 00:50:08,923
What a lot of memories we have from here.
546
00:50:09,043 --> 00:50:14,563
- Here you sat and watched French football.
- Yes, now that you say it, I remember.
547
00:50:14,683 --> 00:50:18,043
- There was a lot of noise here.
- Yes, when the trains came.
548
00:50:21,683 --> 00:50:23,883
God, how beautiful it is here.
549
00:50:25,323 --> 00:50:29,043
- Shut up a noise.
- You get used to it.
550
00:50:30,883 --> 00:50:37,243
Try to straighten up a bit.
Then you can see the Mediterranean better.
551
00:50:38,683 --> 00:50:41,283
Yes, it is fabulous.
552
00:50:50,163 --> 00:50:56,283
In my life, this is a museum.
Here he stood and told, and people laughed.
553
00:50:56,403 --> 00:51:01,083
And then the damn trains kept coming.
Just when the train came...
554
00:51:01,203 --> 00:51:04,443
- He just stopped.
- An art break.
555
00:51:04,563 --> 00:51:10,323
He was so confident and knew
that the rest was worth waiting for.
556
00:51:10,443 --> 00:51:11,843
"Wait a minute."
557
00:51:11,963 --> 00:51:16,603
There is an anecdote about Belafonte,
there was the favorite of the Riviera.
558
00:51:16,723 --> 00:51:19,083
In a small circle.
559
00:51:20,883 --> 00:51:23,403
I remember the one about Harry Belafonte.
560
00:51:23,523 --> 00:51:27,243
We sat and ate,
and Harry Belafonte sang on television.
561
00:51:27,363 --> 00:51:29,923
Are you telling it again?
562
00:51:30,043 --> 00:51:34,603
He sang at a charity gala
for children in Africa.
563
00:51:34,723 --> 00:51:38,363
Tiina could not hide her admiration
before him and exclaimed:
564
00:51:38,483 --> 00:51:43,563
“He's nice too, and so
he sends money to children in Africa."
565
00:51:43,683 --> 00:51:47,363
Which finally leads me to say:
566
00:52:01,363 --> 00:52:04,043
"Who knows if the money will arrive?"
567
00:52:07,043 --> 00:52:11,923
I have made some old friends
to come so he can tell it again.
568
00:52:12,043 --> 00:52:16,843
- He must be a storyteller again.
- But then a train must come.
569
00:52:16,963 --> 00:52:21,443
Yes. I will time it
with surgical precision.
570
00:52:21,563 --> 00:52:26,283
So he is in the middle of the anecdote
and can stand there and enjoy the art break.
571
00:52:26,403 --> 00:52:32,203
- How long is the anecdote usually?
- He should reach it after 25 seconds.
572
00:52:32,323 --> 00:52:38,363
I have to take the train in the other direction,
start a stopwatch here and mark the spot.
573
00:52:38,483 --> 00:52:42,643
Then I take the train again,
calls and says "now" at the mark.
574
00:52:42,763 --> 00:52:46,203
And then I'll get him going
immediately.
575
00:52:46,323 --> 00:52:50,243
The guests will arrive soon.
Go down and check the times and drive.
576
00:52:54,323 --> 00:52:57,963
Perfect. Many thanks.
577
00:53:04,723 --> 00:53:06,643
Now look there.
578
00:53:09,323 --> 00:53:12,563
I saw Luc first and then Ella.
579
00:53:12,683 --> 00:53:16,723
How are you?
I am brought to life.
580
00:53:16,843 --> 00:53:19,603
- I'm so happy to see you.
- In the same way.
581
00:53:19,723 --> 00:53:25,043
- We had some wonderful moments together.
- Hey, Lars. Good to see you again.
582
00:53:25,163 --> 00:53:27,123
You've changed a bit.
583
00:53:27,243 --> 00:53:30,843
- You have too, right?
- A lot.
584
00:53:38,363 --> 00:53:41,003
Okay. Now.
585
00:53:43,283 --> 00:53:48,243
Now we are ... there. When we pass the tank,
I call and say "now".
586
00:53:48,363 --> 00:53:51,723
I wonder how it will go.
587
00:53:55,083 --> 00:53:57,843
Pierette, fantastic.
588
00:53:57,963 --> 00:53:59,923
Oh, father.
589
00:54:03,283 --> 00:54:06,203
He looks after you like a little baby.
590
00:54:06,323 --> 00:54:08,643
Do you remember our picnic?
591
00:54:08,763 --> 00:54:14,443
- Yes, yes. Up on...
- We ate well and drank like pigs.
592
00:54:14,563 --> 00:54:17,643
That's where we danced.
593
00:54:17,763 --> 00:54:22,723
I have found a landmark
and take the train to the apartment now.
594
00:54:22,843 --> 00:54:26,323
Damn it. It's packed.
595
00:54:28,603 --> 00:54:30,163
We must try.
596
00:54:30,283 --> 00:54:33,323
- Sorry.
- Take care.
597
00:54:33,443 --> 00:54:36,003
Okay.
598
00:54:36,123 --> 00:54:38,763
- Now we're driving.
- How long does it take?
599
00:54:38,883 --> 00:54:41,843
Just a few minutes.
600
00:54:41,963 --> 00:54:45,523
You know you're sitting
next to a 79-year-old pinup?
601
00:54:45,643 --> 00:54:49,243
I'm not a pinup.
602
00:54:49,363 --> 00:54:53,723
There is a special atmosphere with the focus on him.
It's better in an hour.
603
00:54:53,843 --> 00:54:58,243
You have to go out on the balcony now,
for now we are on our way.
604
00:54:59,883 --> 00:55:04,163
Moment. They sit straight
and update each other and have fun.
605
00:55:04,283 --> 00:55:07,163
- Gordon is dead.
- So is Jean.
606
00:55:07,283 --> 00:55:13,203
- I heard that Yves passed away.
- And his wife gets oxygen around the clock.
607
00:55:13,323 --> 00:55:16,803
Are you up there?
It's just a little while.
608
00:55:18,083 --> 00:55:20,163
- Now.
- Filip, Yves is dead.
609
00:55:20,283 --> 00:55:24,563
Yes, but now you have to tell
the story of Harry Belafonte.
610
00:55:24,683 --> 00:55:29,403
Tell it now.
The anecdote about Harry Belafonte.
611
00:55:31,003 --> 00:55:33,003
He must begin now!
612
00:55:37,963 --> 00:55:41,163
- I have a hard time...
- Yes, yes, yes.
613
00:55:41,283 --> 00:55:45,363
Okay, Dad.
Tell the Harry Belafonte story.
614
00:55:45,483 --> 00:55:47,643
- Okay.
- Now.
615
00:56:02,523 --> 00:56:08,643
- Did it work? Did he tell it?
- He... He hasn't even started.
616
00:56:23,043 --> 00:56:28,083
We sat and watched a broadcast
with Harry Belafonte.
617
00:56:28,203 --> 00:56:31,763
- A charity gala.
- Wait.
618
00:56:31,883 --> 00:56:38,443
Tiina said:
"How handsome Harry Belafonte is."
619
00:56:38,563 --> 00:56:42,883
"And he is rich,
but he gives money to the poor."
620
00:56:43,003 --> 00:56:46,643
It was too much for me, so I said:
621
00:56:53,843 --> 00:56:57,323
"Who knows if the money will arrive?"
622
00:56:59,043 --> 00:57:02,003
- That was the story.
- Fantastic.
623
00:57:06,563 --> 00:57:09,363
- A toast to Lars.
- Cheers.
624
00:57:13,683 --> 00:57:19,443
- Great! You still can.
- I could have done better.
625
00:57:19,563 --> 00:57:22,763
No, it was great.
626
00:57:22,883 --> 00:57:26,283
- Take care of your heart.
- Yes, I know that.
627
00:57:28,283 --> 00:57:32,643
- You were at the beach all day.
- You looked like a boiled crayfish.
628
00:57:32,763 --> 00:57:35,043
My husband and I laughed -
629
00:57:35,163 --> 00:57:41,763
- when Lars went home and drank wine
and afterwards went down to the beach again.
630
00:57:42,763 --> 00:57:47,963
The poor guests sat and begged.
They haven't seen dad in 15 years.
631
00:57:48,083 --> 00:57:52,203
- His son is standing and pushing...
- "Tell me about Harry Belafonte!"
632
00:57:52,323 --> 00:57:56,043
It went as it went.
He learned a lesson.
633
00:57:56,163 --> 00:57:58,883
"He learned a lesson..."
634
00:57:59,003 --> 00:58:01,043
Damn it.
635
00:58:01,163 --> 00:58:05,243
Disgusting. That was said coldly.
636
00:58:05,363 --> 00:58:08,683
We want him to
to flourish as a narrator -
637
00:58:08,803 --> 00:58:12,883
- and then we put him under time pressure
with a train. Whose idea was that?
638
00:58:13,003 --> 00:58:14,603
It was yours.
639
00:58:14,723 --> 00:58:18,363
- Your stress infected everyone.
- I wasn't even there.
640
00:58:18,483 --> 00:58:23,563
You think we put your father
out on the balcony, and then everything will be as before.
641
00:58:23,683 --> 00:58:26,443
You have to realize that never happens.
642
00:58:26,563 --> 00:58:30,763
But it was...
I still live in hope.
643
00:58:37,323 --> 00:58:41,083
Another beautiful day
in this amazing country.
644
00:58:42,963 --> 00:58:46,763
Today I asked the boys
to drive me to Sète -
645
00:58:46,883 --> 00:58:51,283
- the great troubadour
Birthplace of Georges Brassens.
646
00:59:00,883 --> 00:59:03,643
You must see Sète again.
That must please you.
647
00:59:03,763 --> 00:59:05,723
Yes, definitely.
648
00:59:05,843 --> 00:59:11,923
Not least all the climate zones,
as one passes in France.
649
00:59:12,043 --> 00:59:16,643
- Are there that many?
- Just let him stay in the faith.
650
00:59:16,763 --> 00:59:19,963
Do you really need to wade into it?
651
00:59:20,083 --> 00:59:24,163
What?
Let him the hell stay in the faith.
652
00:59:29,803 --> 00:59:32,763
What is the best thing he has done?
653
00:59:32,883 --> 00:59:36,003
The best was,
that he was the champion of the weak.
654
00:59:36,123 --> 00:59:39,123
And of course his music.
655
00:59:40,803 --> 00:59:43,323
- Just look.
- Now you straighten up.
656
00:59:43,443 --> 00:59:46,963
Hold this right here.
Look at my hand.
657
00:59:47,083 --> 00:59:49,963
- You look like you're healing.
- It won't do.
658
00:59:50,083 --> 00:59:54,963
You have spoken to me about death,
since I was five years old.
659
00:59:55,083 --> 00:59:59,603
- Is it macabre to think about?
- No. You prepare yourself.
660
00:59:59,723 --> 01:00:02,643
One step at a time.
Not so big steps.
661
01:00:02,763 --> 01:00:04,123
Now!
662
01:00:04,243 --> 01:00:07,403
It's going really well!
663
01:00:31,283 --> 01:00:35,483
- I didn't hit the last one.
- But it sounded damn good.
664
01:00:35,603 --> 01:00:40,803
You played his songs on the guitar.
When did you start it?
665
01:00:46,003 --> 01:00:49,083
I am so touched
that I can't find words.
666
01:00:49,203 --> 01:00:53,883
- Do you want to sit here alone for a while?
- Yes, it's just before.
667
01:01:02,003 --> 01:01:05,043
- Good day, Mr.
- Good day, Mr.
668
01:01:05,163 --> 01:01:09,363
- Why are you sitting here?
- To remember Georges Brassens.
669
01:01:09,483 --> 01:01:13,523
- Yes.
- I am here with my son.
670
01:01:14,643 --> 01:01:19,203
- We are on our last journey together.
- Well, that way.
671
01:01:19,323 --> 01:01:22,203
I have brought some flowers.
672
01:01:22,323 --> 01:01:25,923
- Now I have to leave you alone.
- Thank you.
673
01:01:34,203 --> 01:01:38,803
Take one more step, Lars,
so you get a little closer. Such.
674
01:01:44,323 --> 01:01:45,723
Okay.
675
01:01:45,843 --> 01:01:49,643
- Do you want to go without the walker?
- No, I can't.
676
01:01:49,763 --> 01:01:53,683
- Can you play the guitar?
- No, not either.
677
01:01:53,803 --> 01:01:57,683
- I've tried.
- It has been a big part of your life.
678
01:02:03,043 --> 01:02:05,923
I simply can't.
679
01:02:23,323 --> 01:02:29,043
After all, I think
that you glimpse the old father.
680
01:02:29,163 --> 01:02:31,683
It's unbelievable. It's an experiment.
681
01:02:31,803 --> 01:02:35,283
You can see,
that he may be well.
682
01:02:35,403 --> 01:02:38,003
He can forget the darkness.
683
01:02:38,123 --> 01:02:42,443
Cross the red light. It's France.
Everyone runs the red light here.
684
01:02:42,563 --> 01:02:47,483
Speaking of which, there is something,
I will try to help.
685
01:02:47,603 --> 01:02:49,683
Your father has said 117 times -
686
01:02:49,803 --> 01:02:54,643
- that he loves the way,
French people argue in traffic on.
687
01:02:54,763 --> 01:02:59,723
They jump out of the car,
shouting and screaming, and then they race on.
688
01:02:59,843 --> 01:03:02,243
It's crazy that he romanticizes it.
689
01:03:02,363 --> 01:03:07,123
A casting agency has obtained some
actors who can perform it.
690
01:03:07,243 --> 01:03:11,363
- A foolish idea in many ways.
- I know that well.
691
01:03:11,483 --> 01:03:14,683
- Now I'll take over.
- Yes, thank you.
692
01:03:14,803 --> 01:03:19,483
- Hello.
- Hello. My name is Filip.
693
01:03:19,603 --> 01:03:24,123
Hello with you. Just stay seated.
Do you speak English? A bit.
694
01:03:24,243 --> 01:03:26,403
Have you heard about the project?
695
01:03:26,523 --> 01:03:29,883
- Shouldn't I take over?
- He takes it.
696
01:03:30,003 --> 01:03:34,523
The scene is two people in traffic,
shouting at each other.
697
01:03:34,643 --> 01:03:39,483
- His father says: "Oh, those French."
- "That passion."
698
01:03:39,603 --> 01:03:42,443
We will create that for him.
699
01:03:42,563 --> 01:03:45,923
- He wants to believe it's real.
- Yes.
700
01:03:46,043 --> 01:03:51,763
There it is, the key
to his rediscovered zest for life lies.
701
01:03:51,883 --> 01:03:57,603
- Is everyone fresh on a small flat?
- Not a small flat. A really flat one.
702
01:03:57,723 --> 01:04:00,323
And then you just stand there smoking, fool!
703
01:04:00,443 --> 01:04:05,283
Do you want to move your car?
So move it though!
704
01:04:05,403 --> 01:04:09,123
Say when she's going to slap him.
Now that must be enough.
705
01:04:09,243 --> 01:04:11,683
And now a little flat.
706
01:04:12,963 --> 01:04:17,203
You must say: "And now a flat!"
You said, "A little flat."
707
01:04:17,323 --> 01:04:20,923
- Yell a little more, and then a flat.
- A flat! A flat!
708
01:04:22,483 --> 01:04:26,883
Excellent. Everyone is in the scene.
You're the one yelling -
709
01:04:27,003 --> 01:04:31,323
- and you play the one who gets a flat.
710
01:04:31,443 --> 01:04:34,523
Here sits the old man with his son.
711
01:04:34,643 --> 01:04:37,763
Ready to test.
Imagine being allowed to say that.
712
01:04:37,883 --> 01:04:42,923
Be safe. Excuse me. Be careful!
Next time we'll do it right.
713
01:04:44,723 --> 01:04:47,963
We are ready. Just one important thing:
714
01:04:48,083 --> 01:04:52,443
We need to know when you want,
that we must get started. Say:
715
01:04:52,563 --> 01:04:57,523
"It's starting to clear up."
That's the password. Then we get started.
716
01:05:04,083 --> 01:05:05,923
Let me see if I can.
717
01:05:07,363 --> 01:05:09,683
It's going really well.
718
01:05:11,163 --> 01:05:16,123
- Yes, almost.
- It then entered the mouth.
719
01:05:16,243 --> 01:05:19,323
Doesn't my voice sound weird?
720
01:05:19,443 --> 01:05:22,603
Shall we clear out? One, two, three.
721
01:05:22,723 --> 01:05:27,403
- We can't sit here and...
- Nobody takes care of that.
722
01:05:27,523 --> 01:05:31,803
I think it clears up now.
Yes, now it clears up.
723
01:05:31,923 --> 01:05:34,963
Car number one, drive.
724
01:05:45,163 --> 01:05:48,083
- Hello.
- Hello.
725
01:05:48,203 --> 01:05:52,243
- Are you doing well?
- Yes, thank you. What about you?
726
01:05:52,363 --> 01:05:54,523
Car number two, drive.
727
01:06:00,643 --> 01:06:05,563
Is that your car, sir?
Please move it.
728
01:06:05,683 --> 01:06:07,203
Take it easy.
729
01:06:07,323 --> 01:06:13,443
Can you move your car?
what are you doing There is one-way.
730
01:06:13,563 --> 01:06:17,283
I must stay here.
You have to wait a bit.
731
01:06:17,403 --> 01:06:19,923
What are you talking about?
732
01:06:20,043 --> 01:06:24,843
move your car,
so I won't be late.
733
01:06:24,963 --> 01:06:30,643
- Now relax a bit.
- Are you lighting a cigarette? Move it now!
734
01:06:30,763 --> 01:06:34,523
He lights a cigarette.
There we have the freedom.
735
01:06:34,643 --> 01:06:38,483
- Move that car!
- Relax. Go home and wash the dishes.
736
01:06:38,603 --> 01:06:43,003
Honestly!
Do you think I'm a cleaning help?
737
01:06:44,123 --> 01:06:47,483
- Okay, okay.
- Then move the damn car!
738
01:06:48,643 --> 01:06:53,003
And you say as usual
not a shit. Damn it!
739
01:06:54,603 --> 01:06:55,723
Drive!
740
01:06:55,843 --> 01:06:59,683
It's pure theatre, after all.
when you sit here.
741
01:06:59,803 --> 01:07:01,763
French freedom.
742
01:07:01,883 --> 01:07:05,243
- You must apologize for that.
- It has a certain charm.
743
01:07:06,803 --> 01:07:09,163
If you think so.
744
01:07:09,283 --> 01:07:13,803
I've had some amazing moments
on the Champs-Élysées -
745
01:07:13,923 --> 01:07:17,723
- when I have sat
and considered the traffic and the people.
746
01:07:17,843 --> 01:07:20,883
- He became...
- This was a highlight.
747
01:07:21,003 --> 01:07:26,363
I can feel that this performance
will burn itself into my head.
748
01:07:26,483 --> 01:07:30,403
It works,
like you enjoy it a bit.
749
01:07:43,683 --> 01:07:49,243
The first time I was on the Riviera,
was in 1963.
750
01:07:49,363 --> 01:07:54,443
I immediately fell in love
in this part of France.
751
01:07:55,803 --> 01:07:58,643
Everything looks like itself.
752
01:08:00,243 --> 01:08:03,803
It is only me who has changed.
753
01:08:08,163 --> 01:08:12,203
I am glad that Filip remembers
so much from our time here.
754
01:08:12,323 --> 01:08:16,123
Dad, here we bought the magazine Onze.
Do you remember it?
755
01:08:16,243 --> 01:08:19,003
He even remembers more than me.
756
01:08:19,123 --> 01:08:24,523
It was the World Cup in 1982. I was seven years old.
We had one like this every year.
757
01:08:25,803 --> 01:08:31,923
We can't pretend it's 82,
but we can see clips from the match.
758
01:08:32,043 --> 01:08:36,083
Here is the pharmacy. There you went in,
when you had hemorrhoids.
759
01:08:36,203 --> 01:08:42,003
You wouldn't say it was you.
"My son has anal problems."
760
01:08:42,123 --> 01:08:47,803
We used to lie down there.
Every single day all summer long.
761
01:08:47,923 --> 01:08:52,723
Such. I'm holding it.
Take one more step. Yes, like that.
762
01:08:52,843 --> 01:08:57,763
It is touching to see
how much effort he makes for me.
763
01:08:59,363 --> 01:09:04,243
- Maybe you should have a parrot.
- Yes, I have considered it.
764
01:09:04,363 --> 01:09:09,083
Some parrots learn to swear
and say, "Damn."
765
01:09:09,203 --> 01:09:11,843
That might be fun to hear.
766
01:09:11,963 --> 01:09:16,763
It was here that Linda learned to walk,
and here you learn to walk again.
767
01:09:18,363 --> 01:09:23,843
- Unbelievable, Dad.
- It is close to a miracle.
768
01:09:23,963 --> 01:09:28,603
Rocheteau with the long hair.
What was the goalkeeper's name? Schumacher?
769
01:09:28,723 --> 01:09:33,723
Marius Trésor, the chain smoker.
What the...?
770
01:09:33,843 --> 01:09:38,163
- What the hell?
- Look. He walks into him on purpose!
771
01:09:38,283 --> 01:09:40,523
It's too rough.
772
01:09:43,363 --> 01:09:48,683
Alain Giresse. you always said
that he was lower than you.
773
01:09:48,803 --> 01:09:52,603
Father and son
come closer to each other.
774
01:09:53,803 --> 01:09:56,203
I have missed these moments.
775
01:10:27,563 --> 01:10:33,243
- What is the status of the parrot?
- I am sending a picture of my favourite.
776
01:10:33,363 --> 01:10:36,283
Wait a little.
It's not even a parrot.
777
01:10:36,403 --> 01:10:39,683
- It says "perruche".
- I think it's a parakeet.
778
01:10:39,803 --> 01:10:43,723
- It's not a parrot.
- Is it that important?
779
01:10:43,843 --> 01:10:46,483
A large, colorful parrot -
780
01:10:46,603 --> 01:10:50,923
- preferably both can talk,
sing and imitate sounds.
781
01:10:51,043 --> 01:10:54,483
It must be a charismatic parrot.
782
01:10:54,603 --> 01:10:58,963
It would be great if dad made it
to see a parrot before we leave.
783
01:11:00,643 --> 01:11:05,603
So it's the last day, dad.
You always made your ratatouille there.
784
01:11:05,723 --> 01:11:08,043
Europe's best.
785
01:11:08,163 --> 01:11:11,443
- We need peppers.
- Onions.
786
01:11:11,563 --> 01:11:15,443
- And here is eggplant.
- That would be really good.
787
01:11:15,563 --> 01:11:17,283
Now you break loose.
788
01:11:17,403 --> 01:11:21,443
Do you have garlic?
I have to make the last supper.
789
01:11:21,563 --> 01:11:26,043
- He is a pessimist.
- It's only in your head.
790
01:11:26,163 --> 01:11:29,203
It was fun to be told.
791
01:11:29,323 --> 01:11:32,083
- So what do you say?
- Fantastic.
792
01:11:37,163 --> 01:11:39,803
- The kitchen, Dad.
- Great memories.
793
01:11:39,923 --> 01:11:46,723
- The sound of the children in the school yard.
- It's great to hear their laughter.
794
01:11:46,843 --> 01:11:50,043
Now we have to make the ratatouille.
Do you remember it?
795
01:11:50,163 --> 01:11:54,443
Does it tickle your stomach?
You will be a master chef again.
796
01:11:54,563 --> 01:11:59,083
- Are you cooking at the moment?
- No, not anymore.
797
01:11:59,203 --> 01:12:01,963
The things that you have given up -
798
01:12:02,083 --> 01:12:06,003
- because you don't feel you can,
you have to start again.
799
01:12:06,123 --> 01:12:10,603
- Maybe you should play the guitar again.
- Then I have to learn it.
800
01:12:10,723 --> 01:12:12,523
You can play the guitar well.
801
01:12:12,643 --> 01:12:15,083
Now it is locked.
802
01:12:16,563 --> 01:12:19,963
The world must enjoy
The world's best ratatouille again.
803
01:12:20,083 --> 01:12:24,523
We are slowly reaching
back to your glory days.
804
01:12:28,683 --> 01:12:32,083
- This is a big step.
- Yes.
805
01:12:50,443 --> 01:12:53,443
Are they dull?
806
01:12:54,763 --> 01:12:59,683
We try another big one.
I'll just turn it over. Such.
807
01:13:00,963 --> 01:13:05,723
- So you don't appear...
- Like completely decrepit.
808
01:13:05,843 --> 01:13:09,683
Maybe a little further in.
Such. And then you cut.
809
01:13:09,803 --> 01:13:12,483
I'm holding it. Cut, cut.
810
01:13:14,323 --> 01:13:18,963
What if we make it smaller? We are
started with the wrong vegetable.
811
01:13:19,083 --> 01:13:22,443
They are way too hard.
What about the eggplant?
812
01:13:22,563 --> 01:13:25,523
- Cut it out as you like.
- Like that.
813
01:13:25,643 --> 01:13:28,403
Try cutting it out instead.
814
01:13:30,923 --> 01:13:32,843
Such.
815
01:13:54,323 --> 01:13:55,883
Sheep.
816
01:14:01,963 --> 01:14:05,163
Wait a little. I'll be back in a bit.
817
01:14:58,763 --> 01:15:01,923
Then you sit here with your guitar.
818
01:15:02,043 --> 01:15:05,883
That day, I didn't
can sing this song more -
819
01:15:06,003 --> 01:15:10,123
- as quickly as I usually do,
then I'll stop.
820
01:15:36,723 --> 01:15:39,683
That verse went well. Second verse.
821
01:15:48,603 --> 01:15:50,563
Now it comes.
822
01:16:14,963 --> 01:16:19,083
- Hello. Now we are ready.
- Hello. I ...
823
01:16:19,203 --> 01:16:22,563
I think we should ditch the parrot.
824
01:16:22,683 --> 01:16:25,603
What do you mean?
825
01:16:25,723 --> 01:16:28,323
I pushed my father too much.
826
01:16:28,443 --> 01:16:32,883
Now he is sad,
and i feel so stupid.
827
01:16:35,843 --> 01:16:39,123
The air has completely gone out of him.
828
01:16:53,603 --> 01:16:57,643
It's fantastic
to sit here with you.
829
01:16:58,923 --> 01:17:01,643
I hope you are not disappointed in me.
830
01:17:02,843 --> 01:17:05,483
Why should I be?
831
01:17:05,603 --> 01:17:08,723
Because I'm not who I once was.
832
01:17:10,963 --> 01:17:15,723
- The years have passed.
- That's the way it is, father.
833
01:17:35,643 --> 01:17:40,123
- I have one last thing for you.
- A movie screen?
834
01:17:40,243 --> 01:17:42,203
Fantastic.
835
01:17:44,923 --> 01:17:49,243
This is one of your favorite places
throughout the world.
836
01:17:57,123 --> 01:18:01,483
What movies are there?
Is there anyone I want to be able to remember?
837
01:18:01,603 --> 01:18:03,403
I think so.
838
01:18:04,883 --> 01:18:08,083
You once said
that your ashes should be spread here.
839
01:18:08,203 --> 01:18:10,883
We'll take that next time.
840
01:18:11,003 --> 01:18:14,603
Let's watch the movie.
You will figure out what it is.
841
01:18:20,963 --> 01:18:24,163
- Hey, Lars.
- Hey, Lars.
842
01:18:24,283 --> 01:18:29,403
When I chose French in 1973,
I had no idea -
843
01:18:29,523 --> 01:18:33,203
- that I should meet
a then 31-year-old teacher -
844
01:18:33,323 --> 01:18:36,163
- that came to influence
my way of thinking.
845
01:18:36,283 --> 01:18:38,883
Hans-Erik.
846
01:18:39,003 --> 01:18:45,683
An expression that fits like a glove
in glove for you is "one of a kind".
847
01:18:45,803 --> 01:18:48,243
You brought France into the classroom -
848
01:18:48,363 --> 01:18:53,323
- and took us on a wonderful journey
through art and music.
849
01:18:53,443 --> 01:18:58,283
We learned about Jacques Brel and Edith Piaf
and omelet recipes.
850
01:18:59,603 --> 01:19:04,563
You gave us so much of yourself
and lifted all the students in the class.
851
01:19:04,683 --> 01:19:10,123
What I have taken with me the most is,
that life must be lived.
852
01:19:10,243 --> 01:19:14,763
Better to take the wrong train
than standing on the platform and waiting.
853
01:19:15,763 --> 01:19:20,923
You were such a person
which you need in your life as a young person.
854
01:19:21,043 --> 01:19:25,043
You must have one,
who looks one in the eye and believes in one.
855
01:19:27,443 --> 01:19:33,643
Hi, Lars. In 1986 I started
at Ullviskolan in Köping.
856
01:19:33,763 --> 01:19:38,403
I was a young guy,
who sewed my own clothes.
857
01:19:38,523 --> 01:19:43,443
And I was terribly afraid,
every single day I went to school.
858
01:19:43,563 --> 01:19:49,283
I could see all of them
that could protect me -
859
01:19:49,403 --> 01:19:51,123
- and you were one of them.
860
01:19:51,243 --> 01:19:57,403
I am so grateful for
that you made my life a little easier.
861
01:19:58,723 --> 01:20:04,443
Hi, Lars.
Regardless of whether you met at school -
862
01:20:04,563 --> 01:20:11,363
- or 20-25 years later, when we met
in the city down by Systembolaget ...
863
01:20:11,483 --> 01:20:14,523
You with French wines
and me with my beer case.
864
01:20:14,643 --> 01:20:18,763
You always took the time for a chat.
865
01:20:18,883 --> 01:20:24,483
It was a really nice feeling.
866
01:20:25,723 --> 01:20:30,283
I had a very hard time
when I went to school.
867
01:20:30,403 --> 01:20:36,003
I was bullied throughout my school days,
right up until I became a student.
868
01:20:36,123 --> 01:20:42,003
If it hadn't been
for my conversations with you -
869
01:20:42,123 --> 01:20:45,643
- then I probably wouldn't have been the one,
I am today.
870
01:20:45,763 --> 01:20:48,843
Because you were the only one who saw me.
871
01:20:48,963 --> 01:20:55,803
Hi, Lars. When I came to Sweden
and ended up in Köping, we didn't know anyone.
872
01:20:55,923 --> 01:21:00,843
You were the first human
who helped me with my little son.
873
01:21:00,963 --> 01:21:07,723
I remember you invited us
home to you for several Christmas Eves.
874
01:21:07,843 --> 01:21:11,123
You have a heart of gold.
875
01:21:13,363 --> 01:21:19,563
Few people have influenced me
so much throughout my life, like you.
876
01:21:21,283 --> 01:21:25,123
I felt seen.
I felt heard.
877
01:21:25,243 --> 01:21:28,163
I felt loved in a different way -
878
01:21:28,283 --> 01:21:32,123
- than other teachers
usually treat their students.
879
01:21:32,243 --> 01:21:36,883
I'm definitely not the only one
who has it that way -
880
01:21:37,003 --> 01:21:41,923
- but you are the only one
there is as you are.
881
01:21:42,043 --> 01:21:48,123
And I am very grateful for…
that you exist.
882
01:21:49,363 --> 01:21:51,643
How beautiful.
883
01:21:53,403 --> 01:21:57,203
- Thank you.
- So I just say: Thank you, Lars.
884
01:21:57,323 --> 01:22:00,243
- Thank you, Lars.
- Thank you, Lars.
885
01:22:01,283 --> 01:22:04,443
- Thank you, Lars.
- Thank you, Lars.
886
01:22:06,963 --> 01:22:09,523
Fantastic.
887
01:22:09,643 --> 01:22:15,723
It's wonderful how...
888
01:22:15,843 --> 01:22:19,643
It's so big
that I can hardly speak.
889
01:22:21,123 --> 01:22:26,723
If I can't grasp life
after this, no one can.
890
01:22:30,083 --> 01:22:32,483
- I love you, dad.
- Yes.
891
01:22:34,203 --> 01:22:37,403
You're right, Filip.
892
01:22:43,163 --> 01:22:44,683
Here.
893
01:22:48,083 --> 01:22:50,603
- Cheers, Dad.
- Cheers.
894
01:23:01,243 --> 01:23:07,443
It's like if I can talk
just before i die -
895
01:23:07,563 --> 01:23:11,963
- and God asks me:
"Well, Lars, have you had a good life?"
896
01:23:12,083 --> 01:23:17,323
Then I answer yes.
I do. "Yes." Loud and clear.
897
01:23:56,483 --> 01:23:59,403
Dad, I'm peeing.
898
01:23:59,523 --> 01:24:02,363
Freedom!
899
01:24:18,843 --> 01:24:24,123
Last report from France.
A few hours until the trip home.
900
01:24:25,483 --> 01:24:29,683
Beaulieu, my paradise on earth.
901
01:24:31,123 --> 01:24:34,723
Maybe this is the last time we see each other.
902
01:24:34,843 --> 01:24:38,083
If so, it was a beautiful adieu.
903
01:24:40,043 --> 01:24:42,763
Over and out.
904
01:24:58,163 --> 01:25:01,643
Now I'm going to help you.
Such. Now it is locked.
905
01:25:01,763 --> 01:25:06,163
Turn around.
It is locked. I have it.
906
01:25:12,923 --> 01:25:17,243
- Now it rolls.
- Just sit down, Dad.
907
01:25:19,523 --> 01:25:22,163
I'm just checking.
908
01:25:22,283 --> 01:25:25,803
- Yes, it's locked.
- I don't really know... Is it?
909
01:25:25,923 --> 01:25:29,963
Yes, it is locked.
Perfect. Now you can sit here.
910
01:25:56,563 --> 01:25:59,723
Can't we stay a little longer?
911
01:26:14,243 --> 01:26:17,443
Here is Kulturnyt.
The singer, the actor -
912
01:26:17,563 --> 01:26:22,723
- and activist Harry Belafonte is dead.
It informs...
913
01:26:49,523 --> 01:26:51,403
The colors of the tricolor.
914
01:27:56,363 --> 01:27:59,363
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